Our Journey To Parenthood 2009

New Years Resolutions??

2011-01-03T14:02:00.004Z

Did you make New Years Resolutions this year? I decided not to make any this year and just see how that goes. Why set myself up to fail! ha!

remembering sylvester

2011-01-02T17:37:00.004Z

I thought this was so cute when I caught Sylvester and Paisy laying this way and now I see that this way is actually very comfortable position.
(old house)

(new house)

1-1-11

2011-01-01T23:32:00.005Z

We would like to wish everyone a happy and safe New Year. We kicked off our new year with a P-A-R-T-Y!! "So tonight I'm gonna party like its 1999" was last nights New Years Eve party motto. Chris and I had a blast. We were invited over to one of Chris' previous coworkers and his wifes' house for a proper celebration, and that it was. It sure was. ha! I'll just let the pictures tell the story along with some captions for guidance.

...before

...sparklers

...little

...friend

...group

...pictionary

...bubbly

...thai

here's a little bit of what Chris did on his birthday

2010-12-26T20:52:00.003Z

enjoyed a nice long birthday nap

then enjoyed a nice long workout with moi at the gym

and then enjoyed a nice big piece of Cherry Chip Cake

And for those of you who didn't know, Cherry Chip Cake is a famous Rowe family birthday tradition, and one Chris reminisces about often with fond memories. So it's nice to carry on a bit of birthday traditions' past with this special treat. Made for Chris by moi. Chris topped his slightly warmed piece with ice cream. Doesn't it look just tasty?

Guess who's birthday is Boxing Day?

2010-12-25T14:08:00.005Z

Someone has a B-I-G birthday tomorrow. Can you guess who? Click here to find out who.

Chris and I miss our families especially on Christmas, and we know it's very hard on everyone for us to be here and them there. This Christmas, we had intentions of coming home for the holidays but because of Chris' new position as shop chief and manning it just wasn't possible. Chris had to see some of his troops off for a deployment downrange right after Christmas and he is the only one who could do that. This is just part of the mix of the ups and downs of military life and we hope our families understand and respect us for that. We hope to get home for next Christmas or definitely before if work allows.

We did go for a yummy Christmas buffet put on by the Knights Table dining facility here on Lakenheath for all the Airmen and their families. It was so nice that a lot of men/women volunteered their time for us this Christmas. The food was good and it certainly meant a lot to us. We personally thanked everyone for donating their time and energy in such a nice way. We put on our fancy duds and certainly enjoyed our feast consisting of turkey, ham, prime rib, mashed potatoes, shrimp cocktail, yams, rice, cornbread stuffing, cranberries, salad, deviled eggs, fruit, green beans with mushrooms, corn, rolls, and wedding cake for dessert. My plate looked very similar to Chris' it was so full. I couldn't eat all of mine so I shared with Chris. But I did save room for two pieces of wedding cake. I can't resist good wedding cake.

let your hearts be light

2010-12-24T21:06:00.004Z

I'm sure you've seen this, but if not it's A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. I don't know who thought of using Facebook to deliver the true meaning of Christmas, but it's good! I'm sure you'll love it as I much as I did. Plus it's a cute idea, watch and you'll see why.

Chris and I would love to wish everyone a Merry Merry Christmas indeed. We are celebrating at home 'light style' this year. 'Light style' means nothing fancy. I did bake some cookies and the cats are happily absorbing our real live tree in the livingroom. More exciting surprises to come in the New Year, so don't turn that dial. ha!

And, this slideshow should have you reminiscing back to the famous "MacGyver and the Halloween bucket escape". Click here if you've forgotten or just want a refresher. The captions are the best part (of the Halloween post). ha!

Cooking with Chris Series - Sunday Pot Roast

2010-12-23T11:47:00.002Z

I'm a little behind with this series, so you may see one post right after the other. This Sunday roast Chris made was so yummy that I went back to the commissary and requested he make one the next night! As I'm writing this, I'm actually craving one right now. ha! Yummo.

some (Christmas) projects done, some still to do

2010-12-15T09:01:00.006Z

Because this day is fast upon us...

...I'd better get to working on these.

Chris and I decorated our tree last night and the cats thought it was jungle gym even trying to climb up onto it to reach ornaments. At least our tree skirt is covering the tree water from being consumed by our two very water-deprived cats.

Got Milk?

2010-12-14T11:43:00.003Z

We caught you-know-who 'sampling' Chris' sweet milk protein drink. This was not put out for him on purpose. From that moment on we have to carefully 'watch' our milk to make sure it hasn't been 'sampled'.

christmas beginnings and m's 'perfect'ed game

2010-12-12T04:51:00.007Z

We are definitely behind this year, so we decided to kick our butts into gear and buy a tree. So today we headed to Dee's seen below to purchase our tree.

They had a few trees.

Helpful staff.

Chris bartering with a worker. That is our tree to his right. Isn't it a beauty?

Chris carried it to the truck.

Thanks Hubs!

Gosh darn stubborn plastic. I'm standing on a chair to remove the last little bit.

MacGyver and I. Can you spot him?

More decorating today. Have a great and festive weekend.

Blog Rewind - Squadron Party 12.2.2010

2010-12-09T17:00:00.009Z

Here are the squadron party photos as promised. We ate, did a little mingling, and left. It was fun.

Slideshow prelude

I'm showing a little too much 'skin'. I wore my faux fur capelet at the party.

here's a good one of Chris primping in the mirror unbeknownst to him

some of Chris' troops

We are really behind this December. We've got a lot to do still such as Christmas cards, gifts and tree/decorating. So that means everybody expecting a card or gift will probably receive them after Christmas. Sorry in advance, it's just the way it worked out this year. We'll try better next year. I promise.

2 tickets 2 party!!!

2010-12-02T03:02:00.007Z

Squadron party tonight (Thursday England time). Going to have a good time. Pics to come.

And of but of course (written with a british accent) the attire for the lady, I chose a simple yet elegant dark eggplant strapless dress with a faux fur capelet. The dress features origami like folds not seen very well in the picture. Chris wouldn't allow me to wear a tutu so fur it had to be. ha! White tights and a silver sparkly purse to match.

And for the gentleman, he'll be suited in a brown sharkskin suit with a white shirt and grape plaid tie to match. The suit was a mighty great deal, thanks to a certain special deal finder (who will remain nameless). We scored it at 55% off plus free shipping! You're thinking, WOW! I know. ha!

did this... make that?

2010-12-01T02:36:00.005Z

I purchased a new hair straightener because my other one broke and this new one is 'oh my gosh A-M-A-Z-I-N-G'!!! My hair feels like it's just out of the salon silky. Can't you tell that I'm pretty delighted with my new little purchase. Thanks amazon.co.uk!!! ha! I asked Chris to snap some photos of the 'new hair' with the cats and this is what we got... We have a squadron holiday party coming up this week maybe I'll debut it again for that. Hmmm...

(...and it's fashionably purple - purfect)

(This one reminds me of when my Mom was younger... maybe her highschool graduation photo. If I can dig it up, I'll upload and show you.)

(M wasn't havin it.)

(Paisy did good! Doesn't it look like she's floating?)

Thanksgiving 2010

2010-11-30T00:31:00.005Z

Hello! I hope you all had a great thanksgiving!! I haven't dropped off the Earth, I just decided to take a small break from blogging.

Nice carving, huh? This was the brined oven roasted turkey.

perfectly cooked bird

(me - finalizing our Christmas card list)

the 'martha stewart inspired' table

me and our guests

Chris and our guests

preparing

preparing

And none of this would be possible in my life if it weren't for His glory and love for me.

My top 15 reasons I'm grateful and that deserve thankfulness this year...
1. God’s love for me
2. My wonderful husband, Chris
3. The abundance in my life
4. The health of my family, friends and myself
5. My very special friends
6. My pussycats, Baby Paisy and MacGyver
7. My never ending strength to get through things, no matter how difficult
8. Great memories of my parents and my childhood
9. All the lessons that have made me who I am today
10. Freedom
11. Living in a place where there is plenty
12. Having a comfortable and safe place to live
13. The luxury to take a hot shower everyday
15. Being able to watch the sun rise every morning and watch it set at night
14. Chocolate
15. Enjoying a nice hot cup of cocoa or eggnog in the wintertime and a delicious cup of lemonade by a pool in the summer

Earth Day in November??

2010-11-24T20:38:00.004Z

I wanted to have a 'greener' Thanksgiving this year, so I happened upon cloth napkins. You know how you always use way too many napkins during a meal, well instead of using paper and wasting unnecessary trees... I made my own. Lemon is our next theme and thus determined the colors of my thread and monogram choice. And they were super easy and cheap! Now when we wipe our mouths or wipe our hands after handling a big 'ol turkey leg you'll be covered. The only thing I would do for next time is allow for shrinkage. They shrank considerably in the wash, so next time I'll either cut a bigger pattern, or wash/dry the fabric first. Aren't they cute?? I think they are darn cute, but I made them, so after all I'm bias. All for the love of Earth.

This is how they started out...

Adding the monogram, if you can't tell I'm very fond of monograms and ours just happens to be 'br'

And this is the finished product...

Thanksgiving Preview 2010

2010-11-24T02:52:00.005Z

+ (plus)

= (equals)

2 Turkeys and the First Annual (going to fabulous) Rowe Thanksgiving Feast 2010

(I'm already looking forward to next year)

How many kittens do you see?

2010-11-22T15:35:00.001Z

This had Chris and I laughing so hard. Hope you enjoy!

my daunting MRI

2010-11-21T22:03:00.003Z

Yes MRI. I injured my back about 2 months ago and the discomfort and constant pressure have been plaguing me ever-since. I also had a little episode last month with tremendous radiating nerve pain down both of my legs. I went to the clinic and got a nice doctor who helped me and I was on antibiotics for one week. Well the sad news is now the nerve pain is back, so back to the clinic Chris and I go. Now more medication and bed-rest for me with an emergent MRI scheduled for Tuesday. Ugh. So I'm following doctors orders and trying to stay put. You know how hard that is for me sometimes especially with Thanksgiving and Christmas right around the corner. I swear I'm either sick or now injured over Thanksgiving time every year. What's up with that? ha! My Mom has had two back surgeries for a slipped disc and ended up with complete nerve damage in her left leg. No feeling, so no running, jumping, or dancing. So her and I are very cautious and protective not to let me have the same fate. Say a prayer for me on Tuesday and hopefully the result will be something that can be maintained without surgery. I've got my hands clasped in prayer and my fingers crossed for a positive outcome.

Heating Pad Bliss

2010-11-18T04:56:00.005Z

No matter how hot it is Paisy always finds a direct heat source. Bless her. Eventhough it was a hot 75degrees in the house. I was using a heating pad and had gotten up for a second and when I returned she had stolen my spot.

Remember this one of our fire-loving girl?

(2009)
...and this one?
(This one was taken after the fire was out. Poor thing was still soaking up the last little bit of heat from the embers.)

(2009)

Cooking with Chris Series - Chris' Famous Burgers

2010-11-16T23:46:00.006Z

Probably as you already know, my husband is a fabulous cook. He says he got all of his interest and fine taste from watching his Mom and enjoying all of her fine cooking. I don't mind admitting it, Chris is the cook in our family. I think he was probably a chef in his past life. ha! Now I can cook, and I have lots of my Mom's recipe that I treasure, but Chris just enjoys it. He loves trying new spices and absolutely loves trying new recipes. So I've started a new series called appropiately, "Cooking with Chris". Stay tuned I'll be showcasing more of Chris' cooking masterpieces. And I'll be judging them also. ha!

Now, I like my cheeseburger with all the fixins. What about you?

I even bought Chris a gag gift of a Chef jacket just like Emerils. Looks good on him, yes?

(2007)

Can you guess who's becoming little Mr. Lovebug?

2010-11-15T20:22:00.010Z

Yup, you guessed it.

do thank a veteran, because freedom is not free

2010-11-11T20:24:00.008Z

Chris and I love Veterans Day. It's a very significant holiday for us because of it's importance to our country. We lit candles and had a moment of silence for everyone serving and those that have served.

Veterans Day serves as a time to remember and thank those brave men and women who serve/served our nation so honorably in the past and those who proudly wear the uniform today. I know I'm joined by all of the American people in thanking all service men and women for their continued sacrifice and dedication to our country. And yet saying thanks is not enough, President Kennedy, himself a veteran, said that, "as we express our gratitude we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them". So if you see a veteran or current service man or woman or family member it's important to recognize them with a hand shake, holding open of a door, or with two simple words not only today but everyday. Because freedom is not free. Chris and I would like to honor all of the veterans of the armed forces who have died for our country and I would like to honor everyone past and present (including my husband) for their honor, valor, and tireless commitment to Americas security and for protecting our great country. I would also like to make an honorable mention for all of the spouses and families because we also serve.

Thank you for your service honey. I'm so very proud to be your wife!

can you guess our next home theme?

2010-11-11T01:01:00.007Z

(yes I did sew them)

Are you getting ready for the holidays? We are busy getting ready for this...

(Chris and I are hosting his shop at our home for our First Annual Thanksgiving Day Party 2010. Sounds like it will be a grand time had by all.)

...and that

(Christmastime - we're having our official 2010 Christmas photo taken next week. Better late than never. ha!)

What about you?

our most successful halloween to date (2010)

2010-11-01T02:25:00.007Z

We had so much fun this year with the trick or treaters. We however did not expect the fun to start on Saturday this year instead of Sunday. But we were ready with our bells on (not really). Chris did have on his Happy Halloween Old Navy 2010 tee. He looked dapper.

He was the nominated one and he answered the door and handed out candy. He was so good with the kids, and said, "it's Superman", "what are you supposed to be?", and "are you having fun?" I can't wait til someday we can have our own little Minnie Mouse or Buzz Light Year. We had such a big turn out that we had to post a 'No More Candy' sign on the front door. And it's not like we weren't prepared. Since we live on base we knew to expect a lot of kids, but 125!! That's right we went through about 125 snacks in less than 1/2hour. Let's just say Chris was busy at the door and at times just left it open in between treaters. He would say, "they're coming in droves" and "they just keep coming!".

Paisy and MacGyver were very curious and surprisingly hung out by the front door. MacGyver on my lap. He was a little worried and anxious about the constant ringing of the door bell though. It was so fun, can't wait til next year.

And MacGyver proving you don't have to be a girl pussycat to rock a bow.

Getting Ready For Halloween? (updated - see new pictures)

2010-10-29T02:07:00.009+01:00

(New photos below.) And to make any photo bigger just click on the photo to enlarge it. The treats at Chris' shop were well received. I visited for about a half an hour and the guys were devoring them. They had some really nice compliments. Chris said the guys really appreciated them too, so I guess all the hard work really paid off.

We are. We have the lights on the window, pumpkins by the front door, treat bucket ready for treaters, and my specialty cookies/cupcakes in the oven.

I love Halloween. It was always a fun, creative holiday that was dearly embraced by all the women in family growing up. I carved pumpkins with my grandma on top of the kitchen table. I had the job of always pulling the guts out. I can hear the sound of laughter and a sewing machine while my Aunts, Grandma, and Mom worked hard around the dining room table on my costumes. My favorite costumes were couple costumes so one year I was a witch and a friend of mine (Faith) was a cat and we shared a broomstick. One year a girlfriend and I went as a pair of dice. Another year a (previous) boyfriend went to a party as, Helios, God of the Sun and, Selene, the Goddess of the Moon. Can you see a theme here?

Every holiday I love to make and eat cut-out cookies. This is perhaps another fine family memory that's lodged in my head somewhere, that I treasure. So, this Halloween was no exception and Chris' shop got in on the action. They actually don't know it yet, because we went in and decorated tonight and so they'll be surprised tomorrow morning. Surprise! I also love a good surprise. But that doesn't come as a 'surprise' to people who know me. I mixed it up tonight and added cute Halloween cupcakes. I really loved the way the bat cookies turned out. Can't you tell I'm pretty proud. I told Chris I really felt as is I was channeling Martha Stewart because they are pretty good. I don't mean to toot my own horn or anything. ha!

(more cupcake photos to come...)

I also made the cardboard tier cupcake displays. Mom and I picked out the cute decorations.

P.S. Here is a sneak peek to both of our costumes. Can you guess what we are?

Missing Mom

2010-10-23T19:12:00.003+01:00

(clicking on any photo or poem will enlarge it here and on every other one too)

I can't believe it's been a year since my dear mother passed away. Time does fly in moments of happiness and sadness. This whole past year has been very difficult for our family but we've all moved on somewhat(some slower than others including myself). I just wish I could hug my mother just one more time if that's all I had and tell her how much I love her. I just don't feel I had closure with her but then again noone picks the time they pass on do they.

I think about mom every day and I hurt for a little while but then I smile because I know her spirit's within us and that's all that matters. Mom would want us to move on and we're all trying to do that little by little.

When I think of mom I think of laughter, wisdom, and so much love. I wouldn't be the person I am today without her guidance, understanding, and patience. I think Mom's hallowed grounds(her garden) truly symbolizes and captures what she was as a human being, mother, and wife: Sheer beauty and perfection. We love you and miss you Mom and we're sure the good Lord's taking care of you. Heaven is definitely better off with you there. You're an angel amongst the angels. We shall soon be together again.

Your Loving Son,
Chris

More of MacGyver (Halloween style)

2010-10-21T22:44:00.005+01:00

Paisy welcoming a new day. She often sits on the castle perch and watches the sun come up, and then watches all of the kids walk to school.

"Mom, why am I in this bucket again?"

"What's this pumpkin in the picture for?"

"Mom, I don't want to be in the bucket."

"I really got to get myself out of this bucket."

"OK I'm outta here."

"Mom I'm out. What are you gonna do about it?"

"OK. Do you wanna see what I can do? I'll do a trick for you."

"Good, I'm done with that trick."

"I just adore paparazzi. More! More!"

I can't believe MacGyver is 7.5 months old. Wow! Where does time go. He used to be just a small little pipsqueek and now... Now he weighs about 9lbs and is about 30inches long from head to tail. His personality is very different from Sylvesters and Paisys. He's his own pussycat. I often say for him, "I'm my own pussycat, and I'll do what I wanna do." Said with heavy attitude and spunk. He's very energetic and plays all of the time. I don't even think some days that he gets enough sleep. He's loving when he wants to be. He has his little routines and cat schedules. He scratches on the cardboard 99% of the time with little 'snackies' rewards of course. He loves to watch the fish in the fishtank. Chris occasionally calls him 'Buddy', 'Mcdoogle', or 'Mcdoodle'. I usally call him 'Tator Tot' or 'Red Fox'. He is really long and weighs a lot for being 7.5 months. He's definitely taking after his daddy (Thomas). Paisy and MacGyver play together and they both love it. Their favorite game is chase through the house and up and down the stairs. He gives her kitty kisses on the head by licking her, and she either likes it or just tolerates it. But I think it's precious. He absolutely worships Paisy. He follows her around. Wherever she is, he is. Just like two peas in a pod. He loves going out on his 'playground' but whenever our neighbors come or go, in uniform, he sprints for the pony fence and jumps it. I wonder if he thinks it's Chris. He loves to lay in the sunshine and sprawls right out to enjoy the rays. He eats continuously. Chris thinks he'll go a lot bigger. Sylvester was about 12lbs full grown, and so we're hoping for MacGyver to take the record. Paisy is only 10lbs. She's petite. He knows his name and comes when called (only if it's convenient for him) with the shake of my finger. He's very social and likes to hang around with us. We get lots of compliments on his coloring. He is not a purebred marble just a regular pussycat with two really nice looking parents. He has the softest coat I have ever felt. I don't know if baths often or his coat is just naturally minky, but he feels just like cashmere.

And for anyone wondering I did try Paisy in the bucket, and she just wasn't having it. I did try.

Home Projects (England) Series - Family Vinyl

2010-10-14T15:54:00.004+01:00

Chris and I have recently explored vinyl lettering and decals for the walls in our home. Cool huh? We absolutely love our family monogram and our nice family motto. Our monogram is in the front of the home and welcomes people as they enter, and the family motto is on the first landing as you proceed upstairs. It's a lot of precise measurements and it's definitely not for the meek because once it's 'stuck' it's final. We only made one small boo-boo on the monogram, and we tried better at the motto. We are not done with the vinyl though. I have a few more tricks of up sleeve for later.

Pumpkin Patch Possibilities...

2010-10-10T17:05:00.004+01:00

There were so many to choose from the options were endless. Chris discovered this patch and invited me for out for our Sunday activity today. We had a lot of fun. We skipped through the maze lot, snooped for pumpkins, and took some pictures. It was such a beautiful day and a lot of other pumpkin searchers were also out taking advantage of the nice fall English weather.

Chris found his right away. But I had to comb the whole patch, back and forth, to secure my find. I knew it was mine when I saw it.

Isn't she a beauty?

Yes, we did dress like twinners, but that was completely unintentional. I didn't see Chris, nor him see me, before we were already dressed this morning. But you can tell I have on the hat, the scarf, and the red lipstick.

a bunch of random tidbits and one very important thank you

2010-10-09T20:08:00.006+01:00

TGIF, especially after the work week Chris had. Chris and I kicked the weekend off at the Liberty Lodge on base for a couple of cocktails. I actually had one cocktail and Chris enjoyed 2 beers.

Then we came home and I spent some cuddle-time with MacGyver.

Saturday, so far, we've tackled trading all of our spring/summer clothes for fall clothes. We drove to Tesco for some fresh yummy salmon and then Amwell Aquatics for a new Co2 attachment kit for the fishtank to better help my plants grow.

Chris shot this one, of me, in the Tesco parking lot, because I wanted to say thank you to my sweet sister-in-law Jody for the lovely scarf. Looks like you and I like to live in scarves for the fall. Good taste. ha! Thanks so much for the lovely scarf, I really really love it.

We (heart) salmon. I got a little fancy (playful) with the white rice using a metal heart cookie cutter to form the rice. Cute huh?

Blog Rewind-9/17/2010

2010-10-08T21:34:00.005+01:00

Chris here.

Day three of the family tour included a trip to historic Bury St. Edmunds and Abbey Gardens. Abbey Gardens is a protected English national treasure and so rich with history and scenery. It's a must see. The cathedral is a sight to behold... Enjoy!

Acorn Squash - My Favorite Fall Food

2010-10-08T12:15:00.005+01:00

I grew up eating acorn squash direct from my grandpas garden and peddling all of his harvest vegetables around the neighborhood. Everybody loved my grandpas home-grown vegetables. To me it's just a fall tradition, so when I saw these beautiful hearty looking acorn squash at the commissary yesterday... I knew what I had to do. I bought one and brought it home and couldn't wait to cook it up. ha! I'm sure you'll are familiar with the fall-time health food, but did you know it's loaded with amazing nutritional extras like supplies Vitamin A, Vitamin C, Beta-Carotene, Potassium, dietary fiber, manganese, folate, Vitamin B complex, omega 3 fatty acids, copper and tryptophan. Wow! This is a super food and sure is good tasting.

(Yes there is a cat paw in this photo - MacGyver was helping.)

Original Recipe Yield 1 squash

Ingredients

* 1 medium acorn squash, halved and seeded
* 2 tablespoon butter
* 2 tablespoons light brown sugar

Directions

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).
2. Turn acorn squash upside down onto a cookie sheet. Bake in a 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) oven until it begins to soften, approximately 35-40 minutes.
3. Remove squash from the oven and turn onto a plate so that the flesh is facing upwards. Place butter and brown sugar into the squash, and place in rectangle glass baking dish with about an inch of water in the dish. Make sure the squash is secure so it won't slide around too much during baking.
4. Place squash in the 350 degrees F (175 degrees C) oven and bake another 30 minutes.

Then enjoy!

Blog Rewind- 9/16/10

2010-10-07T19:37:00.003+01:00

Chris here.

Took a ride to Cambridge today. The weather was very pleasant with temps in the 60's. We took it easy again today as everyone is still getting acclimated to the time change. We walked around downtown including world-renowned Cambridge University. Cambridge is a great town to just walk around and soak up all the cool shops, pubs, and history. I feel smarter just being here. Maybe it's the university.

Blog Rewind-9/15/10

2010-10-07T19:27:00.002+01:00

Chris here.

Such an exciting day!! My dad and sisters Jody & Lindsey are visiting me in England for the very first time. I drove down to Heathrow Airport today and picked them up. It was awesome to see them again and I'm sure they were glad to see me even though their bodies were glazed over with jetlag. We drove back to RAF Lakenheath where I live and put them up in billeting for dirt cheap. We had a nice pesto pasta my sister Jody made and then called it an early night. Lots of sleep to catch up on. Off to Cambridge for a little sightseeing tomorrow. Stay tuned...

Home at last...

2010-10-04T00:26:00.005+01:00

I arrived all safe and sound, but a little tired and hungry. But I made it. Everybody knows my least favorite thing to do is fly. But oh well. It's gotta be done, right? My dear husband met me at the airport. Talk about first-class service. ha! Driving into London is very intimidating and can be a bit dangerous, but he braved it just for moi.

First thing I did after kiss my husband, and give my cats a cuddle was unpack, shower and lay down for a nap. But before any of that... look at what someone had waiting for me. Beautiful flowers from the base florist. oooh...

Lots of items on our agenda coming up before the end of the year. Plus Chris' work responsibilities have increased, but I feel confident we can pull it all off.

- rotate all spring/summer clothes for fall
- decorate with a few more home decor pieces
- put out all of our fun Halloween/autumn decorations
- buy treats for trick-or-treaters (I'm imagine we'll probably have a lot this year since we live on base now)
- arrange Christmas card photo to be taken, order online, and then mail to friends/family
- update Christmas card list
- small Halloween surprise at Chris' shop with possible games and fun cupcakes/cookies
- hoping to attend the squadron Halloween party of festivities (Chris and my costume reveal on another post)
- big 'first annual' Thanksgiving feast for Chris' entire shop and their families here at the house (if I don't get sick like last year)
- Christmas celebrations
- and then we'll be rocking in 2011 with a few surprises (more to come on that)
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More tomorrow. Off to try to readjust my sleep schedule after the jetlag.

as promised...

2010-10-01T19:59:00.006+01:00

Leaves.

Fall, to me, isn't a 'wow' this year and seems to be winding down already. I managed to get inspired by a few really nice trees 'in bloom'. Hope you like.

I'll be flying back home (to England) tomorrow, and flying is not the most enjoyable thing for me, so say a little prayer for me. More from England upon my return. I promise.

Mom is sad, but I'll be back really soon. Thanks so much for the most enjoyable visit and all of your sweet advise and support. I love you bunches. Go Team Brake-Rowe!!!

nice dinner w/friends

2010-09-27T20:41:00.002+01:00

Saturday, Mom and I were invited out by some friends to a quaint little restaurant in Maple Springs, NY right by the lake called (appropriately) Guppy's. It was such a nice time. We laughed, dined and just enjoyed each other company. I ordered a steak salad and a baked potato, and my meal was the big hit of the night. Even other diners from another table inquired about my meal. It was fancy and good at the same time, but it wasn't as good as Chris' steak salad though. Thanks for such a great time, L and J!

Busti Apple Festival

2010-09-27T02:42:00.003+01:00

Well the Busti Apple Festival was not a huge hit this year, it received a B- for effort according to the Ali fun scale. Mom and I had a good time, but it's been better other years. The disappointmentss were the walking (they closed off the major road that used to be used in the past for parking which resulted in a loooong walk), paid admission (years before it had been free), and not that many really 'got-to-have' crafts to buy. Oh well. On the up side I did dig for apples, we got a lot of exercise, we shared laughs and did a little shopping, got Chris his apple butter (2jars), splurged on two (small) pieces of real apple pie (which I enjoyed after dinner tonight), and had my picture taken next to a tractor. ha! So the ups of the day outweighed the disappointments.

Macintosh, my favorite.

These are yours, Chris. Yummo. Huh?

Ring and hat -courtesy of Mom. Thanks Mom!

I'm standing next to it because they wouldn't let me on it.

Me and my BFFM. She calls herself my 'best friend forever mom'. ha!

"Autumn is a second Spring when every leaf is a flower." by Albert Grimes

2010-09-24T02:03:00.010+01:00

This was taken of a miraculous sunset driving towards Walmart on Fairmount Avenue just day before the equinox. Isn't it something?! It was so blinding. The camera couldn't capture the extent of it's full beauty, but it almost looked heavenly blinding.

So as the sun sets on our summer season and we welcome fall. Fall is such an amazing season for so many reasons. Yesterday was the September Equinox, signifying the sun being in line with the equator. I find these days especially intriguing because the Spring Equinox and Fall Equinox are the only two days in the year when the sun rises directly in the east and sets directly in the west. So on two days of the year you can find the exact cardinal directions of East and West by using the sun. The ancients did this when they set up their calendars at Stonehenge and the Mayan pyramid, among others. Cool huh?

I've been photographing a lot of trees and leaves in their transition from green to apple, lemon, orange, raspberry and chocolate color. Every photographer has been captured by the colors of autumn leaves, but this was my morning and I felt this compulsion to shoot. I'll have more leaves photos up soon.

I also saw this Vera Bradly handbag ad for autumn handbags and I just had to cut and paste it for you to enjoy. So true, yes?

And everybody that knows me knows I'm mad about my country and western music, so I just had to share my boyfriend, Kenny Chesney's new song, The Boys of Fall. He is just an amazing singer and song writer. If you haven't heard the song or seen the video, have a listen. You'll like it. ha! Mom and I have seen a few little kids football games and the energy about little kid football just encompasses me. Something about the traditional football gear, to the stadium lights and little ones just running and diving for the ball. I guess it reminds me of a more innocent time that still exists when little ones play and enjoy the game of football. I was never into football when I was younger, but I hope to encourage our children to either play it or appreciate watching it. And the little cheerleaders are just too cute.

And the best part of the season is definitely the TURKEY, and giving thanks for everything that the good Lord has blessed us with all year long. Last year I was bed-ridden sick and my caretaker, Chris, cared for me plus cooked our Thanksgiving spread. So needless to say I was thankful for my health once I recovered, of course, my selfless Emeril-like husband and his mean kitchen skills. Hopefully we'll have friends over this year and be able to celebrate the true meaning of the day with dear ones.

Paisy eyeing up dinner.

Our spread 2009, thanks to Chris. I was not sick enough to enjoy a plate of that yummy goodness.

Chris, I'm sure, equates autumn-time with hunting. He talks about doing a lot of hunting as a child. He said he has fond memories of hunting with his grandfather and still dreams about the two of them hunting together from time to time.

And the event I'm looking most forward to in my near future is going to the....Busti Apple Festival with Mom. It may be a little hokey and something us small town folk enjoy, but it'll be fun to walk amongst all the arts and crafts and enjoy apples, apples, and more apples. I may even splurge and eat some good old fashioned home baked apple pie. And yes Chris, I will bring you home some homemade apple butter. I know that's your favorite.

MDO (Mothers Day Out) of a different kind

2010-09-20T19:06:00.002+01:00

Mom and I needed some much needed shopping therapy today. What can be better than shopping therapy? We headed out to Erie Mall and got my 'mall fix' on, let me tell you. Mom knows how much I miss the the whole shopping experience, it actually sends endorphins to my brain telling me I'm experiencing something pleasant. I have to do a lot of online shopping from England and it's just not the same. Sure something arrives in the post and it's a little adrenaline rush, but not quite the same as really walking around the mall, scavenging for the right size, and securely the best deal. Where are all the ladies at? Am I right, or am I right?

Moms' lost a lot of weight and I am really proud of her. We celebrated her weight loss with a few new outfits -Macys style. I had so much fun Mom. Thanks for the shopping-bonding experience.

(This one's my favorite.)

(No,this one's my favorite.)

(Wait, I really like this one too.)

(Definitely this one.)

(I own this one. So maybe it's my favorite. Plus I think the color 'electric orchid' is in this season.)

Which one do you like the best?

Panama Rocks - Warning Picture Explosion

2010-09-11T20:18:00.036+01:00

(I love how the light is coming through the rocks on this one.)

(I was carrying with me my sunglasses, hat, coffee cup, Chris, my camera, camera case and my lucky leaf. I pawned off the camera and camera case to Mom, but she said, "you need a mule to carry all this stuff". Which is true I did have a lot to carry.)

(Doesn't this tree with it's colossal tree roots looks like something from a horror movie?)

(Moss wall - remind you, Chris, of our old bungalows roof?)

(I'm analyzing the lucky leaf I just found.)

(We were told to stay away from 'stop #8' because of a large hornets nest, but we decided Chris was brave enough to try, and luckily he was not harmed during this photo op. My husband, what a brave cat.)

(My hat goes with me everywhere I go.)

(The nice man who offered to take this photo, said, "I couldn't help but notice, are you carrying a picture of a serviceman?", I said, "Why yes I am, it's my husband." I was proud as a peacock, as I smiled and proceeded to tell the man all about Chris. I'm so happy somebody noticed my picture, and liked my corny idea.)

Mom and I swept up with the opportunity for the last of Summers' nice days and went to Panama Rocks. Panama Rocks was on Mom's list from last year when Chris and I were here, but we couldn't fit it into our schedule. Panama Rocks has a lot of cool history and so taking in the 1mile loop feels nostalgic in a way. I had been there several times when I was younger and so it felt very different to come back as an adult. The rocks and tree roots were bigger and grander than ever though. It really took me back. Mom loves the rocks and taking lots of pictures and so that is exactly what we did. We tried to capture both the detailed up-close image and the awe-inspiring backdrop of the 'in the distance' type shots.

Just a little history for all of you history buffs out there. Panama Rocks is called Chautauqua's Wonder of Nature because of how it originated. The rocks themselves are massive boulders that formed a Paleozoic seashore about 300 million years ago. Panama Rocks is several acres of towering rock cities made of quartz conglomerate. During the last Ice Age, glaciers caused fractures in the rock, moved them up and created deep crevices and cracks. The entire ridge is approximately 1/2 miles long and is fun to explore the resulting caves, crevices, and passageways in this rock city.

Here's another pretty interesting tidbit for you about the Panama Rocks "Mystery Medallion". A medallion was discovered in 1986 and they believe the medallion to be of French origin, dating back to the 1600's, when French explorers were in the Great Lakes region. Fascinating stuff, huh?

Hope you enjoy our picture explosion. You can also check out this link for more info. Or, you can come check it out for yourself next time you're in the area. Love to see you.

Chris what's next for you? The Grand Canyon perhaps?

Today also marks the anniversary of a deeply sad day for our country on 9-11-2001. We must never forget. As I do each year, I am asking you to stop and remember all of the brave men and women lost in the World Trade Center, the Pentagon and the four jetliners that went down. They may be gone from this Earth but they are not forgotten. I am counting my many blessings today because I am still here with my husband and family. I hope you can find something to be hopeful about today and that you will join me in remembering the far too many lives lost nine years ago today. Fill your hearts with hope for our country's future, love for your neighbors, family and friends, and reverent remembrance for those lives lost.

Some random things...............................

2010-09-08T00:37:00.006+01:00

1. How was your Labor Day? Did you spend time with family or did you have to 'labor'? Mom was off from work and I'm kind of in permanent vacation mode at the minute, so we did what just comes naturally. Coffee and the drive around the lake. The lake is Chautauqua. However the lake in the pictures below is Great Lake Erie. Yes we are lucky enough to live by both! Mom and I have been shopping, having lots of 'girl time' and working on Mom's constant projects around the house. It's so nice to be able to help Mom with everything.

It was very windy that day. Probably residual from Earl, so pardon the hair flying everywhere in the pictures. Notice who came along for the drive?

Here Mom's showing off her new bumper sticker. Dad if you want one also, I have an extra. Just let me know and I'll post it to you. I made it into to a magnet, so it's not permanently stuck to the car.

Don't we look like twinners? Everybody says so. ha!

I couldn't resit doing a little swinging. I used to love playgrounds when I was younger. My favs were the bars and the swings. Thus the big smile. ha!

2. MacGyver's big day is tomorrow. What big day you ask? Neutering day. Shhh... he doesn't know it yet. I promise when Chris gets his new camera he'll post some new pics of our 'little stinker' aka Red Fox.

3. Chris is lucky enough to have some family coming over for a short visit. Wish I were there, but I send along my love and hugs. Lindsey, you'll have to take lots of pictures for me. Ok?

simple living/ Walmart's on fire

2010-08-26T22:44:00.004+01:00

Things I love about my hometown.

1. Mom. Mom and I talk a lot about everything. She gives me lots of supportive advice that I truly need right now.

2. Lazy days. Since Mom's on a little vacation from work, we're doing a lot of sleeping in and running our errands leisurely.

3. Walmart. Good 'ol Walmart. Oh, how I love you so.

4. Extended family. I really enjoyed watching my second cousin get married and then last weekend my uncle/aunt, cousin, and little second cousins were here visiting. Ahh family memories.

But, I still miss Chris and the cats. There's no place like home (England).

In other news...

Mom and I were shopping today at Walmart, and whilst in the middle of self-checkout the staff was yelling "evacuation, evacuation" and firmly 'herding' everyone outside. Mom and I looked at each other and with the cart and all held hands as we along with the masses exited the building. Yikes. Was it a bomb scare? No, but a pretty significant fire. Yikes. Luckily no one was hurt, the fire was extinguished and everyone was allowed back in after an hour.

Like my anchor-woman skills? I don't mean to toot my own horn, but they're good huh?

Home Projects (England) Series - Fishtank

2010-08-19T02:40:00.004+01:00

(Please pardon my silly talk in the background. I need to remember to zip it while filming. ha!)

This is one of the projects in our Home Projects series. I bought the fishtank from another military family, and it was a really good deal. It's a Jewel brand (British brand), so we cannot take it with us unfortunately. But we are loving it for the meantime.

Chris nor I had starter fishtanks as children, so we jumped in head first with this one. I think it fits perfectly with the nautical themed room, and fish are supposedly very calming to watch, and who doesn't need some calm in their day.

First we added plants. I wanted an all natural tank and that means no plastic fake plants. The plants haven't faired too well, but perhaps once I return Chris and I will try a system using yeast to create more CO2 for my plants to thrive.

But for our fish, they seem to be thriving. We added 3 clown loaches originally. They are the striped ones. They'll get about 6inches in length. Them gradually added cherry barbs one batch at a time. They're my favorite, and because Chris wanted angel fish they were our last and final addition. We think it's a beautiful investment. Plus Chris has taken to the fishtank like a 'fish to water'. Parden the pun. ha!

salad fanatic

2010-08-10T17:28:00.005+01:00

I am a salad fanatic lately. I whip up the salad part and Chris does the grilling part whether it is chicken or steak. Yum. I just love the green goodness of an awesome salad and it's heart healthy too. But, I should say I am also a picky salad lover. It can't be just be any salad, it must be an awesome salad to be loved by me ha!

Like this awesome one... This salad was prepared in the Brake-Rowe family kitchen in England of course. I am just now getting around to posting it.

Notice the little red pepper heart. It must have just been a coincidence with how pieces came together. Cute, huh?

I'm also proud to report that with my love of salads and my spinning classes I've lost 10lbs. whoo-hoo. Just another 10lbs. to go.

Do you have a divine salad that you'd love to share?

Dear Santa,

2010-08-09T21:37:00.007+01:00

I'm submitting my Christmas wishlist to Santa early this year to make sure, hopefully, I'll receive something on my wishlist.

(This post is designed to be humorous. Not really intended as 100% truth, even though maybe someday I'll have all three. The idea took form when Mom and I were driving around our beautiful Chautauqua Lake yesterday and decided to stop in Bemus Point. Bemus is a highly desired location on the lake both to live and hangout. There are restaurants and folks like to gather for small concerts and bands in the summer. It's got a happening nightlife.

So, the post started taking form in my mind when Mom asked me if I wanted to take a picture by a boat. My first instinct was no not really, but I didn't want to disappoint her. I just didn't see me standing in front of someone elses boat as a good photo op.

Shortly after while the photo boat idea was simmering around in my brain, I spotted a gorgeous sparkling red tandem road bike, and I immediately jumped out of the car with my camera and struck a conversation with the couple. I complimented them on the their beautiful bike and talked with them a bit. They were so nice too. I have a secret obsession with tandem cycling and someday intend to dabble in that hobby. Spinning is good, but like the nice guy said, "you've got to get on the road, there's nothing like it". And I was thinking, Oh yeah. I love feeling the wind, smelling the sweat off your loved one's back, feeling the road underneath you. ha!

I explained when my husband and I get back to the United States and the roads are a little more cycle friendly I intend to take my passion of spinning to the road as actual cycling.

Then Mom and I went back and took the other photos. My Mom contributes to my silly sense of humor almost encouraging me, so this was my inspiration for the post.)

p.s. Chris came along too. Plus I'd highly encourage everyone to read up on my town and surrounding towns, such as Bemus Point N.Y., there's a lot of cool activities, sights, and history here. Check out this link. It's the best at showcasing everything.

a Saturday wedding - (warning picture explosion)

2010-08-08T16:40:00.007+01:00

The weather was indeed beautiful on Saturday, and it was the perfect day for a wedding. Mom's cousin L's son, S, was getting married, so I guess that makes the groom, S and I second cousins. I don't know? But it was absolutely beautiful. I love weddings.

The ceremony was very nice and very traditional. The bridesmaids wore lovely shorter kelly green dresses and carried hand tied pink salmon colored gerbera daisies. A very nice choice.

The father of the bride walked her down the aisle with her veil covering her face. S looked nervous at the alter, but that is to be expected. His two brothers, C and J are standing next to him. Both of the mom's joined hands and lit the unity candle and ceremony began. Both sets of parents looked so happy they could cry. It was quite touching. The church was packed with at least 100 guests, so I'm sure the couple felt surrounded by love and lots of support on their next step in life together. The pastor they had chosen, and who'd baptized both the bride and groom, died suddenly last week, so an alternate was chosen at the last minute. His sermon lovingly lectured the couple about life's ups and downs and then gave some advice on how to cope with those hills and valleys together instead of as individuals. Very good advice.

Bride wore a white strapless dress with lots of gorgeous beading on the bodice with a long train. The groom wore a black and white tux to compliment his bride, and the groomsmen wore black and white with green ties to compliment the bridesmaids. The couple exchanged vows and rings very thoughtfully and the pastor pronounced them husband and wife. Then they shared a long passionate kiss.

Look at this limo! It's huge! ha!

Mom and I drove up around the lake to the Chautauqua Inn & Suites for the reception and cocktail hour. During the cocktail we mingled with family and friends.

At six the reception started and we were seated for dinner. The bridal party arrived and danced their way in, similar to this youtube favorite. Had I known they would arrive that way I would have captured it on video, but unfortunately I didn't know.

We were seated at the cousins table right next to the family table. They were over 20 tables total! First we were served dinner salad and then buffet style for the haddock and a cutlery cutting station for prime rib. Even though I'm on diet I did splurge with haddock and half portion of prime rib. I couldn't resist. I have a weakness for prime rib, because that's not something Chris and I can cook at home, so I like to eat it out when I can. Yum.

Next we took some family photos and then did a little dancing.

Cake was served and then the bouquet throw and garter toss.
We picked up some candy from the candy bar on our way out. Cute idea! It was fun to watch the couple having so much fun. They look like such a happy couple.

Many congratulations to E and S!! We wish them a long and happy life together. Chris, Mom and I all had so much fun enjoying family and celebrating this special couple on their special day.

Pics and video to come. There are so many. ha!

Home Projects (England) Series - Tribute Bookcase

2010-08-06T16:16:00.006+01:00

Happy Friday everyone! This post is one in a series that I will showcase as home (in England) projects. Meet our "Tribute Bookcase" Chris and I finally got the decorating 'bug' and decided that our new house needed a few of our personal touches, so the idea was born. The Tribute Bookcase was probably the first of the projects accomplished and it's probably my favorite. You'll see why.

p.s. You can always click on the photo to make it larger.

Chris and I are incredibly patriotic and I love the idea of showcasing all of Chris' accomplishments in the military so far. He had several big bins full of 'stuff' such as medals, awards, all of his promotion certificates, special military collectible coins. I'd had the idea for awhile, but the space and circumstances at our Duchess bungalow just was not conducive for a project of this scale. This was a gift from myself to Chris, even though he helped too. He sorted through the two big bins of 'stuff' and picked out the most important things he wanted to showcase and I did the rest. I thought it fitting to incorporate Americana decor in amongst Chris' awards and certificates for the full effect. I love decorating and I believe in this one I had some help from above because Chris' Mom was an excellent decorator. I'm only half as good at it as she was. We found the teak shelving unit on ebay.co.uk (my favorite website for our nice English teak mini collection). The project wouldn't have been complete without Dad sending along Chris' basic training photo. Thanks Dad! I was so excited with the way it turned out. It's very fitting in our new house. Don't you think? We are so happy to finally have all of Chris' most precious accomplishments as a primary feature in our home. I am so proud of it and Chris' military service.

I'll be showcasing more finished home projects and of course, as it is in every home, there's still more to be done. So, stay tuned for those.

Tomorrow is the family wedding and this weekend is supposed to be the nicest weather of the entire summer here in Jamestown. How nice is that for the couple to start on the path of their lives together? Stay tuned for all of the nice wedding pictures.

Have a great weekend!!

coffee - day two

2010-08-05T13:48:00.004+01:00

So yesterday, I just had to get my coffee fix. I headed out (by foot) for our local Starbucks which is 3miles roundtrip from home. Not necessarily a real difficult trek, or so I thought. It was so hot and humid, that I probably should have checked the local weather before I began. I left in the morning, so it wasn't that bad until the return trip. But was it worth it? Oh yeah! ha! I love my coffee. Oh, and the best part... Chris joined me! Can you spot him in the photo? I'm toting around my favorite framed picture, from home (England), with me, so that Chris can be 'with me' everywhere I go. So it's kind of similar to Where's Waldo instead it's Where's Chris. Where's Chris in this photo? Cute or a corny idea? I know it's probably corny, but that's me. Everyone who knows me, knows I have a very unusual sense of humor with somethings. To know me is to love me. I guess?

p.s. Thanks Mom for the two coffee cup idea. The Starbucks girls probably thought I was crazy, but it sure made the photo look believable.

Thanks, Lindsey. Thanks, Dad!

2010-08-04T18:49:00.003+01:00

Sweet emails from family mean so much. Thanks for caring for and loving us as much as you do. You mean the world to us too! Love you both lots.
(written by Ali, approved by Chris)
p.s. This will definitely make the 'family brain'.

back to my roots

2010-08-01T23:44:00.000+01:00

I made the decision last week to spend the rest of the summer with my mom. I really need a break from here and I always love soaking up my Mom's love. I'll be leaving tomorrow. I'm looking forward to going to a family wedding, and some house projects, and summertime by the beautiful lake. Oh and corn-on-the-cob eating contests. I always win those. ha! Although, I will miss Chris, our cats, and our house it's best to just get away once in awhile for a much needed hiatus from it all. Chris will be taking care of the cats and the house while I'm away, and I have perfect confidence that he'll do just fine. This breather will be good for everyone. Our IVF date of September has been changed to early next year while we work through some things, but I'm more than confident that everything will work out in the end. More posts from Jamestown! Stay tuned for all the summer fun!

more of MacGyver/Chris (by request)

2010-07-31T13:41:00.001+01:00

bugs

Chris chasing MacGyver

now

the newest mirror image (by request)

2010-07-29T18:20:00.001+01:00

Wow I was shocked to see this morning, but so happy none-the-less. They've come a long way to get to this point, so that is why I decided it 'blog-worthy'. Plus I've had requests for my 'mirror image' cat photos. MacGyver was in the hallway while I was styling my hair and then I went downstairs to tend to the carrot cake I was baking for Chris' shop and when I went back upstairs he was gone. Then I went to check on Paisy in her morning 'place of choice' and that's when I saw this. They were so comfortable soaking in each others 'feline-ness' that they didn't even move when I approached them with the camera. Cute huh?

a special handwritten note

2010-07-28T14:08:00.008+01:00

I just received a special handwritten note from Mom today. Often emails are much faster ways nowadays for communicating, but there is something very special and extra thoughtful in sending an old fashioned handwritten card. Moms just seem to know how to pick you up when you're down, or just when to send a special little kindness sealed with a stamp and loving penmanship. Mom, you have no idea how much I needed your card and your special way that you love me today. I hung it on our 'brain' (family bulletin board) along with one of the other adorable goodies I received. By the way, you are going to make a beautiful grandma someday too. No we're not pregnant. Just dreaming about the future. Love you Mom. You're the best!

(debut of our family 'brain') Cool huh?

17 weeks

2010-07-27T12:34:00.009+01:00

MacGyver is 17weeks. Our vet says he's ready for neutering, but Chris and I think it's a little early. When is the best time to do that? I don't want to wait until he starts to 'spray', but I don't want to do it to early either. Any ideas?
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Chris aka Sgt. Rowe

2010-07-22T10:01:00.007+01:00

Boy it's sure nice to have my Sergeant home with me. I missed his...

confident smile

long-lasting hugs

sweet kisses

sincere compliments

but, most of all, I missed

snuggling and feeling his feet against my feet in bed

The happy homecoming consisted of...

Flowers (red roses of course)

Cookies (raspberry/white chocolate - new recipe - will definitely need some tweaks for next time)

Gnocchi (from scratch - just like Chris' mom used to make - they were a big hit)

recipe brought to you by... http://www.makeit-loveit.com/2010/06/gnocchimy-mouth-is-watering-just-typing.html

Banner and (bought in Tucson and reused everytime there's a TDY)

Balloons (because what's a celebration without balloons)

Guess Who's Coming Home Soon...

2010-07-14T11:48:00.000+01:00

I'm one lucky woman...

2010-07-06T19:51:00.003+01:00

These are a few snippets of emails exchanged between Chris and I. They were to just too cute not to post. I mentioned to Chris in an email that I was feeling 'crampy' due to my 'time of the month' and this is the sweet email that I saw in my email inbox the next morning. I'll tell you after reading this all my cramps just seemed to fade away. Awhhh...

"I know how bad you are feeling. That time of the month really gets you down. I wish I was there to help you out. Hang in there kiddo. Just take care of yourself and don't overdo anything. Make sure the kitties give you plenty of cat-scans. Perk up boo-boo and look forward to talking on Saturday.
Love u lots!!!
Daddy"

This is another sweet smidgen of just how much Chris adores me. Not that I'm bragging I just wanted to admit just how lucky I know I am. Wow... emails like this really make me want to just shout from the rooftop, "WHAT A GREAT HUSBAND I HAVE". Thanks baby, I love you too. Can't wait til you're home again with us.

"I'm really looking forward to getting home and being with my family again. I really miss you guys and taking care of you. I can't wait to see you on the 16th. Just hang in there for a little while longer and then daddy will take the reins again. I love you so much princess. Give my best to the kitties.
Lots of Love,
Daddy"

Fourth of July Rewind

2010-07-04T19:52:00.006+01:00

Here's to the U.S.A. Proud to call it home.

Happy 234th birthday!

Since this Fourth was not that magical, without Chris this year, I thought I would post reminiscing about last year. Last year we were fortunate enough to spend an extended period of time in Jamestown (my hometown) with my lovely mom. We feasted on good food, did some home remodeling for her and of course watched fireworks. Independence Day is a special holiday for me because it always takes me back to my younger years. My grandpa a WWII vet always had his American flag a waving and sparklers for us kids on the Fourth.

The sweetest memory I have of July 4th was one year I was about seven or eight when my dad took my little sister and I to watch the fireworks. We were parked on a fairly steep hill and it was dark and we were sitting on the tailgate of my dads truck waiting for the fireworks to begin. Just as soon as the fireworks started and the super loud booms made your heart beat faster and the all the colors hung in the sky, my sister started to laugh and laugh and throw herself back in truck. I think the sounds and the sights of the fireworks spectacular probably scared her and only emotion she could muster was uncontrollable laughter. Those were the days.

Mom painted stars on my face and put ribbons in my hair. You know me always wanting to be silly. They looked cool. Thanks Mom!

Here's what we watched. I loved all the colors and especially the all white sparkly one.

Chris and I just wanted to take this opportunity to wish you all a happy and safe day of celebration.

MacGyver in shower - rated G

2010-06-26T12:28:00.003+01:00

Chris took our camera 'on location' with him, so no new pics. Sorry. All I have is my flip, so all you'll be getting is video until he gets back.

MacGyver has all of my attention lately, because he is so funny. He's definitely developing if own little mischievous little cat personality. But his new love or infatuation is with the shower has me laughing every day. Sylvester used to love the shower and I'd say 'shower' and he'd come running just to be in there with me. But MacGyver is taking 'shower' a step further by joining me in the tub while I'm showering. I try to nurture this odd trait by keeping him on the other side of the shower curtain because I think he'd get right under the falling water if he could. I'm trying to make sure he doesn't get too wet, so he won't be too afraid to keep up his funny curiosity.

Happy Father's Day U R GR8

2010-06-20T20:57:00.002+01:00

Dear Dad,
I just wanted to wish you a very special Happy Fathers Day from across the globe. Dad, I cannot thank you enough for all the love, advice, and support you’ve given me over the years. You’ve made so many things possible through your hard work over the years for this family and you deserve all the credit in the world for that.

From all the wonderful memories I’ve enjoyed with you it’s hard to pick one special moment to encompass what a wonderful father you are. If I had to pick one special memory or memories it would have to be all the Brewer baseball games you took me to as a kid. I remember being in awe as we walked into County Stadium and watched our favorite players take batting practice as you made sure I had the latest and greatest in souvenirs. I remember the smell of the stadium and the warmth of the sun as we cheered the Brew Crew on. Those are cherished memories I will never forget.

When I’m fortunate enough to have children, I want to do the same for them. You provided for us the best you could and I can never repay all that you’ve done for me. I just want to thank you for being the father that you are. I could not ask for a better one.

Happy Fathers Day Pop!! We love you very much!!
Chris

Happy Father's day to both of the men I love very much! I'm thankful to have Chris and my father-in-law in my life.
Ali

Chris, I'm looking forward to what next June brings us. Maybe we can have a real reason to celebrate this special day.

I'm thinking of all of families who have lost their husbands, fathers, brothers, and sons fighting for our freedoms. I pray that you have a day full of wonderful memories and rejoice in them.

To: Daddy From: MacGyver

2010-06-17T15:50:00.002+01:00

The last couple of days MacGyver is not just playing 'cat tail', but appears to be carrying it around with him as his personal toy. He may even be bringing it to me, intentionally, to try to engage me in play. Sylvester used to do that. When I hadn't played with him in awhile he would let me know by bringing me a 'mousey' and dropping it by my feet. Smart pussycats. Must be MacGyver taking after a smart one. I love playing with MacGyver, he is so fun. He's keeping me busy while Chris is away. Isn't he getting big? We have his 13weeks vet appointment in the next few days, so I'll update on his weight. I think he's over 3lbs. easily. This ones for you, Daddy. Do good. We miss you.

Love,
Ali, Paisy, and MacGyver

New Fitness Regimen and More MacGyver

2010-06-10T15:58:00.004+01:00

I took my first spinning class on Tuesday and am hooked. I haven't been really active lately because of my job and I miss my old figure, so I decided to put my butt in gear. I've always been really interested in cycling and since cycling is not too safe on the roads over here, I decided on stationary cycling. I went to the fitness center on base for a spinning class, and discovered that would be a fast way to burn some calories. It was a hard 45 minute workout, and every time I go I'll get better and better. I've got another class in an hour, so I'd better quit blogging and get ready to feel the burn.

24 hours

2010-06-08T11:39:00.002+01:00

Chris' TDY departure time slipped (delayed) 24hours, so we got to spend one extra day with him. So this is what we did...

1 extra day at home

24 hours more to soak up his 'Christi'ness'

5 hour much needed nap midday

4 very important last minute errands accomplished

3 very yummy homemade belgium waffles shared with a friend

2 kgs (almost) of salmon for dinner. Now that's a proper send-off dinner.

4 sweet kisses goodbye

1 sad wife and 2 cats missing him for a short time

11 weeks

2010-06-07T19:34:00.006+01:00

"Is this a kitty bathtub or a drinking fountain?"

"How can I tell?"

"I'm in 'attack-mode' here, so you can tell what I'm capable of. Are you scared?"

"Is this sign following me?"

"Maybe I'll lay down for a cat nest."

"Can't decide between here or the top nest."

"Oh hi Mom. Are you following me with that camera again?"

"Who's 11 weeks?"

"I'm smiling for this one. Can you tell?"

"I'm exhausted. It's hard being chased by paparazzi."

MacGyver is 11 weeks. The pictures pretty much say it all. He is a busy, busy little guy and then naps to recharge his little battery. He's definitely developing his own little personality. He is so sweet. He uses his litter box all the time now. He's eating kitten food and looks so much bigger. I cannot wait to get him weighed in again at our next vet appointment. He scratches on the cat cardboard or on the sisal, so to prevent any furniture destruction. None yet, thank goodness. He sleeps a good portion of the night. We play 'mousey' all day and then when Daddy gets home, he takes a turn with him. He's good with visitors. We had a 4year old little boy with his parents over for a picnic/BBQ and MacGyver was a little shy at first, but quickly warmed up. It will take him a few more 'kiddo encounters' to feel completely comfortable. But, he did good for his first time. He also got to meet a baby bunny for the first time. He was really interested, but didn't hiss. But, he definitely knew it wasn't feline. Luckily he didn't try to harm it. And, that's a good thing. He responds to his name most of the time. He is very affectionate and 'crows' a lot. I certainly miss having a 'crower' in the house, because it's been very quiet since Sylvester passed. We hope you've enjoyed 11 weeks.

2010-06-05T13:24:00.003+01:00

Chris is leaving in a few days for a short TDY (temporary deployment). He is going to a safe location, so not to worry, he is not going to the desert. The cats and I will be holding down the fort here at home until he gets back. We are going to miss him, but it's only a short deployment and soon he'll be home again. Please send along your well wishes for him on his journey. As always I'll be waiting with open arms to welcome home my Airman. Chris takes his military career and his TDY experiences very seriously because every TDY is a chance to gain more experience and make him a better Airman. We are so proud of our U.S. Airman. Fly, Fight, and Win, Chris. We love you!

10 weeks

2010-06-01T11:50:00.003+01:00

MacGyver's babyface never gets old. Can you tell that in these 10week photos his face is starter to look more mature. He is getting more and more mature in his actions too. I used to be able to trick him while playing 'mousey' and now he really can't be fooled. He becoming more slinky, longer and taller. He began setting his own bedtime and risetime. Two nights last week he put himself to bed in the top tier cat nest about 10pm, and he usually gets up with Chris about 5am. He comes to both of us when he wants a cuddle and purrs whenever he is picked up. He's sleeping more and more because I think he's finally getting comfortable with his surroundings. We now give him full access to the whole house, upstairs and the main level. He eats dry kitten kibble 'free-feed'. Chris and I think he's starting to know his name and he comes once and while to it. He not only 'kitten plays' with Paisy, but now he's assertively 'attack-playing' with her. She only tolerates it for a few rough times and then just ignores him. He follows her everywhere, but there are lots of places he just can't reach yet, that she can go to 'relax'. We've had a few people tell us, including the vet, that he has big feet and a large head for his age, so he might be a big one. We hope so. At his 9week appointment he weighed .95kilo which is about 2lbs. He is the light of our lives. We certainly hope you're all enjoying the sweet pics and videos as much as we are.

The Mystical Stonehenge

2010-05-31T13:41:00.005+01:00

Took a trip down to Stonehenge to check out the legend and the mystery. It was pretty cool!! Makes you wonder what went on here so many moons ago.

Our Tour Is Halfway Done - Yay!!!

2010-05-31T11:27:00.004+01:00

We are not just a little excited, but a whole lot excited to have reached our halfway point in our tour. Chris DEROS is May 28, 2010, so we are required to be here through then. Most often men/women take a few weeks of leave before then to get settled in at their new bases and because ours will be back in the U.S. it will take some time to arrange for shipping all of our goods and finding a new place to live. We feel really grateful to have had this experience, to have spread our wings, met all of the lovely people and seen some cool things, but it will be time to go back home. Chris will probably be given an option for a one year extension, but he will politely decline.

It's hard to explain to those who haven't lived over here, what we've experienced, but it's drastically different than the U.S. Us Americans have a lot and are used to a lot. In Britain it's a stripped down way of living where families focus on what's really important like family, church, and community. It would have been really nice to have grown up here, but once I've had a taste and what else is out there (in America) I'm forever spoiled. Britain reminds me of perhaps what American was like in the sixties and seventies (even though I wasn't around for much of that). There is no crime, school uniforms, communities centered around the neighborhood pubs for gatherings and the local church. Most of the British people that we have sat and chatted with have not been to America, but would like to visit (but will probably never do it). Some have been to Disney World in Florida and some have been to New York City, but that's it. It's very expensive to live over here, not only for us Americans, but especially for the British folks. We have help from the U.S. Military to help accommodate for the weak U.S. dollar against the British Pound. We also receive reimbursement for county taxes, TV taxes and road taxes which certainly helps out. The British pay exorbitantly in taxes and it's hard to ever accumulate wealth (is what we've been told). Most families husbands work two jobs or side jobs and then only really get-by. House prices are also exorbitantly priced, much higher than the regular house priced anywhere in the U.S. It would be like San Diego priced property, but all you'd receive is a large apartment that is 30years old and needs work.

England is steeped with lots of history. If you're a history buff you would have a field day on this island. Whether it be the engrossing mystery of Stonehenge or the numerous castles England has plenty to offer. London is London of course. There is a lot to do in London and plenty to offer for any type of palate. It truly is one of the world's great cities. Numerous museums, restaurants, and attractions such as Buckingham Palace, Big Ben, and the London Eye are awe-aspiring.

Most of England however is small towns and farms. People are generally friendly towards us Yanks because of our common history and the battles we've fought together in such as WWII. The Brits and the Yanks will forever be bonded.

We've learned a lot these first two years of our tour here. We've seen how other countries live and go about their business and most importantly how good we do have it in America in some respects. We've learned how much we love and miss our families because of the distance and that we should cherish every single moment with them when we do return to the States. Family is the most important thing in the world to us. Without family you really have nothing.

co-written by Ali & Chris (yes he really is getting the hang-of-it) Way to go Chris!

My Promotion

2010-05-28T22:33:00.005+01:00

These past couple days have been very special to me. As you know I learned of my promotion to Master Sergeant yesterday which was a pleasant surprise to say the least. I must say I did study my butt off this year and wanted to make it real bad. I feel that I am ready to take on the tremendous responsibilities of the next stripe and am looking forward to the challenges that lie ahead. Through it all I couldn't have done this without the endless love and support from my wife Ali. She has always been supportive of my career and believes in me and my abilities. She is my best friend and confidante and everything I accomplish and strive for in the military is because of her. She also surprised me on my promotion day with a lovely bouquet of flowers. Aren't they gorgeous? I love you with all my heart honey!! You are the driving force behind my success.

Chris

Chris' Big Day

2010-05-27T21:29:00.003+01:00

Chris made Master!!! Wow! What a huge accomplishment for him. I am so happy for him. He said he did it for us. Please click here to see where Chris' Master Sergeant story began. But for now, he's passed his testing and is invited to a promotion ceremony party tomorrow. Unfortunately, I will not be in attendance because of my accident, but I've enlisted the help of a trusted photographer person to get a lot of pictures. So don't worry, photos of his promotion will be posted tomorrow, so you won't miss anything. However, in the military, everyone is promoted according to time in service. So the actual promotion when the men/women wear their stripe and start receiving Master Sergeant salary is done by seniority, so all of the men/women who have been in the service the longest will be 'promoted' first. Chris' line number is 4983 because he's relatively young in the military and will have to wait until the other 4982 'sew on' before him. It's a pretty fair way of promoting, but for us that means waiting until April or May next year to see the additional money in his paycheck, or to see him sporting his new 'house stripe'. Chris' raise will be an extra 18% increase, so that's not too shabby. But that wait does not diminish his success to me or the military and he will be known as Master Sergeant Select Rowe in the military, but just wonderful hubby to me.

I wanted to make sure Chris felt special when he got home and to show off his accomplishment to everyone in our neighborhood, so thus the banner. Nice huh?

9 weeks

2010-05-26T10:19:00.003+01:00

I love this one I took. The light is hitting him just perfectly and it's as if he's looking up to Heaven.

He looks so bright orange in this one, but really he's a faint ginger with a light brownish tinge. His daddy was the same color, but tabby and BIG. The woman we got him from referred to him as a 'marmalade' instead of a ginger because of his marble coat.

MacGyver was asleep before we slipped his bow tie on, so that is why he looks tired in these. It was the only time he would wear it nicely for these photos.

Today is our first official veterinary appointment. We have decided to be seen on base, instead of in Newmarket, with Dr. Clare to keep with the continuity of their pet passports when we return to the US. I really can't stand the base vet, but it's just for MacGyver first kitten shots and Paisy's boosters. I'm sure I can be civil for such a short time. Chris is coming home to accompany me on this appointment because as some of you know I'm still recovering from my accident.

In other news, the Master Sergeant list comes out tomorrow (Thursday), so we're hoping Chris' name is on it. The promotion percentage is really high this year for Master Sergeants (27%), so that will work in his favor. But it's still only 5,000 out of 20,000 who tested, got promoted. We feel confident though. Thanks to everyone who's following his progress and cheering him on.

"Paisy Play With Me..."

2010-05-25T08:51:00.000+01:00

Paisy and Baby MacGyver have started play 'wrestling' and chasing each other through the house. I'm so glad that they have started getting along. I was really worried for the first five days that the new relationship would not work, but they are now getting along really well. Paisy loves having a playmate in MacGyver, and MacGyver is really looking to her for mothering. It's turned out to be a purrfect match.

8 weeks

2010-05-17T13:15:00.001+01:00

Isn't he photogenic? Maybe it's because I follow him around all day taking his picture. You can call me his 'paparazzi'.

Like Brother, Like Brother

2010-05-16T11:42:00.000+01:00

Although they never met, they definitely have similar tastes in cat nests.

We miss you Buddy.

More of MacGyver flipping for his new family...

...Put Your Dukes Up

2010-05-14T14:23:00.000+01:00

I am just having so much fun teaching MacGyver. So far he's doing really good. I'm so happy. We hope everyone's enjoying all of the sweet videos. This video is our best impersonation of this sweet video.

just lounging with dad...

laying around with mom...

MacGyver vs Mousey

2010-05-11T21:56:00.000+01:00

Here's what we've been up to today. CLIMBING! He climbs on everything, and then when he's stuck he'll 'cry'. Well now I know what we'll be working on tomorrow. Getting down. We had so much fun today though. We played and played and played. The litter training is going better, and he even went a couple times on his own without me 'suggesting it'. Paisy is tolerating him better today and she and him are even in the same room together without too much complaining (growling) on her part.

(pardon my silly sound effects)

It's The Beginning Of The MacGyver Era

2010-05-10T21:05:00.000+01:00

...and if you listen closely you can hear his sweet sounds.

Isn't he just eatable?

The eve of his first full day at home...

I think we'll keep him.

We picked him up yesterday and we've been so busy with him ever since. I feel as though I'm a new mother of a baby and not a kitten! Ha. He just has so much energy. It's so funny to watch a 'burst' and then a 'crash'. Right now Chris and I are working on getting him to acknowledge his name and use the litter box. So far the one time he's used the box is when we've placed him there. Needless to say motherhood is a very busy job. He's eating the kitten kibble with the kitten mix that Sue started him on. We have him kind of sectioned off in our kitchen just until he's litter trained for sure. He's very loving and lays on me to cat nap. He has the sweetest little baby meow and purring sounds. It just melts my heart to pieces. Paisy is not too sure of him yet, so I don't want them meeting up in the dark right now. She's probably still missing her companion. We all are. More video and pics to come, but right now I must get a 'cat nap' in. More fun tomorrow.

A Sweet Mothers Day Note To All Of The Mothers That We Love

2010-05-09T09:35:00.000+01:00

Paisy and I wanted to wish all of the mothers that we know a most lovely Mothers Day indeed. You all know who you are. Chris picked these, and yes it was a like deju view back to the Bloody Thistle Story posted awhile ago. But Paisy and I wanted to share our beautiful gift with all of our mothers. Some are beloved friends, some our family, and the two most important mothers in our lives, our mothers. Here's to you Sue and Kathy. Love you all. We hope you take some special time for yourselves today because you all completely deserve it. I hope you fully understand what a wonderful and very rewarding impact you make on those who know you and we love you lots.

Sylvesters last cat nest

2010-05-06T09:44:00.000+01:00

Chris took this one us doing Sylvesters most favorite pasttime - 'catnesting'

Chris helping Sylvester take water from the faucet. Which is what he's resorted to for water.

Sylvester falls asleep in his cat castle and today Paisy joined him. It's just another way for her to 'feel' him I think.

I'm very sorry to say tonight will be Sylvesters last cat nest. Laying with me in bed at night (catnest) is Sylvesters most favorite time. It's the only time he really gives me any reaction lately. We wanted him to make it to meet little MacGyver. I wanted him to teach him everything he knows and influence him in his own cat way. Sylvester is such a wise pussycat.

Baby Paisy is especially sad and perhaps confused lately also because I think she can tell something is wrong with him. She is very keen and has incredibly cat senses. She goes up to him all the time just to smell him. She's been following him around more than normal just to 'soak' him up. She will genuinely miss her companion. We will all miss him.

He's been by my side for 15years. He's been extremely loving and loyal. He understands my emotions and has given so much of himself. I may never find another cat like him. We decided to put him down on Friday afternoon. Our favorite veterinarian Dr. Clare is coming to the house, so we can all take part in the process. She is so very kind with me and incredibly compassionate. Sylvester is surrendered to the vomiting and has sense stopped eating and drinking, so tomorrow is the right time for him to go.

We will love you and miss you, Boy. (written with tears streaming)
Mommy

MacGyver 6week update

2010-05-01T13:34:00.000+01:00

This is for all of our family and friends who are following are precious little 'adoption' story. MacGyver is 6weeks old in these photos. Doesn't he look fun? We'll be collecting him on Sunday the 9th. We decided to let him stay with his mom for another week to absorb some of the important life lessons kittens learn from their mama's. The report we've received from Sue is MacGyver is the largest in his litter (of 2), he's quite the little character, and he's advanced for his age. Last night Chris and I got back from an important meeting at my work and we were lounging in the living room talking about the best ways to properly integrate him into his new family, and Chris started doing this hysterical British cat accent. It was hysterical, so I had to capture it on video. Looks as though MacGyver isn't the only character in this family.

Before & After

2010-04-14T14:59:00.000+01:00

Before

After

(Sylvester's 'mid-play' in this one)

While I was sick, look at what got done! Chris put our pussycats new toy together. We figured with the little one (MacGyver) on his way that the old cat tree was in need of a desperate makeover. So we upgraded. The other post was Sylvesters and was a store return, because that was all I could afford. It was half price. And the movers dumped it on it's head, and broke the top 'cat nest' almost in two. Oops. So we decided out with the old, and in with the new. I found this one on the economy and it's so much bigger. We have a couple of modifications in the works for it eventually, but for right now it's pretty purrfect for them. Don't you think?

Chicken Soup & Muffins

2010-04-12T11:42:00.000+01:00

I have been feeling lousy for the last couple of days. I called into work sick last night and Chris took me to the ER on base. Turned out it was only a Upper Respiratory Infection, but it felt like I would die. So I'm following Doctor's orders to get rest, drink fluids, and take the medication he prescribed. I am also a very lucky little patient to have Nurse Daddy here to take care of me. Chris gets very high marks for caring for me when I'm sick. He's so gentle and so doting. Last night, before I'd had enough and went to the ER, Chris ran me a warm bath and helped me undress before putting me in the tub. Awhh... So I've been living on Thomas' English Muffins lightly buttered and Campbells Chicken with Rice Soup. I was out of soup and Chris actually surprised me by swinging by the commissary picking up some and coming home here to make it for me. Chris is always telling the pussycats to, "give your Mommy a 'cat scan'".

Awwhh... Sophia

2010-04-07T11:45:00.001+01:00

Chris and are slowing upgrading a few things around our home. For example we just recently hung JC Penney curtains and took down our comforter from over top our bedroom window. We are enjoying making these purchases together and slowly beautifying our home. I had my eye on a duvet by Pottery Barn and stalked it til it went on sale. Pottery Barn almost never has a sale and so I jumped on that. Chris and I don't shop from Pottery Barn, but they do have nicely made items but steep prices. Ahh Sophia... Isn't she a beauty? Sophia is the name of the duvet and I just had to have her. It reminds me of Springtime everyday when I wake up and what is better than that?

Now for the cats, ever since we received the duvet and put it together the cats have been loving life. When Paisy lays on them she looks intoxicated she's so pleased. Chris and I have now nicknamed them 'our clouds' (the duvet) because it's so much fluffier than our old blanket and comforter. He'll say, where are the cats? You should check up in the clouds, I'll reply. So yesterday they must have stayed up there all day. I'm so glad we could make our cats so happy with our purchase too.

Chris' Easter Day Cake

2010-04-06T13:46:00.001+01:00

We (actually Chis made most of it and I helped) made this nice Easter cake and we are still enjoying it a few days later. Didn't it turn out cute and fun for Easter?

The Bloody Thistle Story

2010-04-05T15:20:00.000+01:00

(and they smell so good...)

Chris picked these nice daffodils yesterday for Easter. They grow in the 'wild' out here, so he didn't get arrested. Yes, that was so nice of him. The side of the road stunt, jump out of the car and gather as many as you can in 2 minutes plan reminds me of the 'bloody thistles' stunt a few months ago. Can you expand on that please?

Well sure, so the story goes... I wanted some thistles, like my mom used to have as decoration, so Chris and I were on a Sunday drive a few months ago now when I started spotting them in the distance and along a large gorge. Chris said he would pull over at the next lay-by and snatch me some. We were driving along on a major carriageway probably at speeds exceeding 70mph. So we get to the next lay-by and I spot some down a small muddy slope and right before the frozen river (gorge). I warned Chris, "please be careful not to fall into the frozen lake". And the next step he took caused him to slip onto his bum. Luckily he was not cursing, because I was laughing so hard. He got up, and still in pursuit of these prize thistles that I wanted so bad, took another spill. By that time he was pretty muddy and no thistles. He yelled back, "this is all for these bloody thistles". Bloody is another term for damn and the British use it a lot. I was really scared for him on his second stumble down the hill that he would fall into the frozen lake. A little mud now that can be cleaned, but drowning how would I explain that to his Dad. Thistles and other overgrowth in the area were prickly, so by that time very muddy Chris was gathering these thistles and his clothes kept getting snagged. He was in pretty good spirits by then and actually was laughing about it afterwards. I guess that goes to really show me that Chris would go to adverse and risky circumstances just for me and my pursuit of the 'bloody thistles'.

Just reminiscing about this story last night I laughed so hard I nearly split my britches.

Easter Day Filled With Blessings

2010-04-04T13:42:00.000+01:00

Chris and I would like to wish everyone a Happy Easter. We are so thankful this time of year for the sacrifice that Jesus made for all of us. That He died on the cross for our sins, to wash away all of our sins. I know I don't deserve His grace all the time, but He loves me anyway. I rejoice in knowing that one day I'll spend eternal life in Heaven with Him.

We had a traditional Easter day, we spent it together. Then we celebrated by enjoying a nice military sponsored brunch on base which was lovely indeed. I even got to have a picture taken with the Easter bunny. Chris had to corral the bunny over to pose with me because I was the only adult wanting her picture taken. What can I say, I have a bunny obsession.

Happy Easter 2010

Liz's and my fish tank adventure

2010-04-03T20:23:00.001+01:00

My good friend Liz and I set out in search of a used fish tank for Chris and I and it turned out to be a really cool adventure. Our first stop was the girls house, just outside of Norwich (pronounced Nor'ich), to scope out a fish tank that she was selling for a friend. I discovered the used tank the day prior on a garage sale site popular among us military folk. Chris and I have had buying a fish tank on our list of high priorities for awhile, but since it's our starter tank, did not want to invest a lot of up front money. Liz and I went out last weekend to price new fish tanks and 'on the economy' they would be too expensive as starter fish tanks. Liz is an expert at fish and fish tanks, so having her along was real asset. Newer is always nicer, but not exactly what Chris and I could afford. Yesterday I came across a Juwel fish tank(that is a really nice British brand and the one I wanted the most) on Lakenheath yard sales for a good price and immediately called the girl who gave me some information and suggested I see it. So today Liz and I set out for Norwich which is about 50minutes on some pretty sketchy roads to see for ourselves if tank was truly a good deal or not. We were pleasantly surprised with our find, and I worked a deal and next thing we know we were packing the tank into my little car. It barely fit. If the tank with stand would have been inches taller or wider it simply would not have fit. At the time I was thinking we should've have driven Chris' truck, but who knew. But Liz and I fit it in with a little bit of intuition and elbow grease. Thanks Liz! Chris and I are really happy with our new little addition to our living room and even more excited to have it filled with happy fish and plants. The fish tank is a small work-in-progress, but I'm following Liz's instruction on that because she is 'fish tank brilliant'. She's smart in other things too, but fish and animals are her expertise. I learned to never explore the 'fish world' alone without an expert. More pics to come.

So with the fish tank now packed into my sardine can we proceeded to Norwich city centre for some food, because all of the bartering and loading tanks/stands made us hungry. Plus I was feeling a little bit of low blood sugar and luckily the nice girl who sold me the fish tank was kind enough to give me an apple. Two actually, and that did the trick. Because the drive into Norwich, on a nice Saturday afternoon, with the rest of England (is what it felt like) was a bit hectic. I don't particularly like driving in new places especially big cities with new roundabouts. That kind of driving makes me especially nervous even with our GPS unit as a guide. We'd both heard great things about the city, but neither of us had been there before. It was much busier and much more crowded than we had expected. We drove for awhile, for what seemed like in circles, trying to find a parking ramp that had openings. Finally we came across one and had to wait in line to even get a spot, but after we parked we had no idea if it was in close walking distance to nice restaurants or shops. This is when the adventure really got good, and for those of you who know me know I love a good adventure.

After we got settled into parking spot, we decided to seek out food. We spotted this Bella Italia (a different one) on our drive in and we're hoping to find that restaurant again because we were in the mood for Italian lunch. We got lucky, because right when we walked out of the parking ramp we saw a different one (it's a chain and there must be two in Norwich). Success. Our day couldn't have been going any better. We feasted. Everyone who knows me knows Chris has turned me into a bit of a 'foodie', so I'll have to showcase what we ate. Sorry for you hungry readers out there. I apologize. The food was so good, and the company was even better. Thanks Liz for such a fun adventure. When are we going again?

Liz

me

my food

our dessert

The purpose of our trip, Chris' and my pride and joy, meet our new $70.00 fish tank...

Here's to marrying you all over again...

2010-03-31T10:18:00.001+01:00

Anniversary's are special days in a marriage where a couple should ask themselves, "Would I marry this person all over again?" It's kind of a rhetorical question, but it's a good one. It's a question couples should ponder with a lot of self reflection. Marriages are a couples masterpiece and should be properly looked after and treasured.

"There is nothing you can do, achieve or buy that will outshine the peace, joy, and happiness of being in communion with the partner you love."
Drs. Evelyn and Paul Moschetta

Our marriage is not perfect by any means and we both invest lots of time and care to keep it sustained. But Chris and I believe that marriages are lifelong commitments with peaks and valleys. We also try to build each other up, all the time, because in the end it's your partner should always be able count on. We need to work on respect and not shouting not very nice things at each other during arguments. We also are working on patience with each other. It's hard not to expect perfection from your partner, but it's the give and take and a happy medium where both feel satisfied that works out the best. We do have common purposes and share common dreams. And we both stay within the covenant of our vows and believe that without trust as a base a healthy marriage cannot truly even be reached.

Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
I Corinthians 13:7

The evening started out with reservations to The Fox restaurant for Mexican food. You know how much Chris and I love Mexican food and this place has a two month waiting list. We were really looking forward to a nice meal and some nice ambiance to officially kick-off year four.

Here's what happened first... Awwhh

Next... Paisy getting a whiff for herself. She's a girl! What girl doesn't appreciate nice smelling flowers?

If you can't tell, I'm really enjoying my Margartia (sorry for the big eyes) It was really good!

Chris soaking up the ambiance of the restaurant, and well just being a bit silly. Love your silly side babe.

Chris enjoying his main course of Large Prawn Fajitas. If you can tell it got really 'steamy' in there after that.

And what's an anniversary meal without dessert?

We're expecting...

2010-03-26T19:21:00.000Z

A kitten to be exact. Our friend just had kittens and we decided we needed a new addition to our ever-growing family. The fact is, Sylvester is getting so ill that Paisy is bored and misses her cat interaction with him and is ever-so clingy on me. I love her to bits, but I can see she would love a playmate, someone of her same species. Someone on her terms to play and interact with. Plus she would be a great mom. I can just tell she has so many great mommy traits. His name will be MacGyver. The funny story behind the name is, Chris and I decided on his name last night, and then I emailed the pics to a friend today and had not shared with her the name yet because we weren't sure we would be able to get him or not at the time I sent the email out. She emailed me back and called to my attention a big 'M' on his belly covering his whole side. I had not noticed that before. I then immediately told her Chris' and my intentions to name him MacGyver. Then I was having a chat with the woman friend with the kittens and I told her of the funny story behind the famous monogrammed kitten, and I chuckled and told her since he was 'branded' with the letter 'M' we couldn't easily name him Thomas. Then she laughed out saying the kittens Daddys name is Thomas. Oh my gosh! It was really weird, but the kitten is definitely meant to be ours. So he'll be MacGyver The Cat to us. Do you like his name?

He's a week old in these photos, so he'll be with his mommy until approximately April 26th. Isn't he just precious and eatable even?

Can you see his 'M'?

...back to 'real' life

2010-03-21T08:26:00.000Z

We are back home in England. We flew back the other day and boy it sure feels good to be home. We love being on 'vacation', but just find our bed and our cats so welcoming and nice. It's good to be away, but it's always nice to come home. We had very enjoyable times both in Cali and Arizona with friends and family. The weather was gorgeous and Chris and I were able to soak a lot of sunshine, but I had my sunhat on the whole time (Doctor's orders). My dermatologist told me I should make a hat my friend, and that's exactly what I've did. I now own three. We certainly needed a change in scenery and the warm weather, because as you can tell from our weather ticker it's always cloudy and rainy here.

The jet lag really beat both of us up pretty good, because we both slept for about 24hours straight our first night back. I absolutely detest traveling because of all of the ridiculous security checks as of late. No strip searches this time though. Thank God. I know the airport security personnel have to take their job seriously, but come on enough is enough sometimes. They treat everyone as if they are terrorists and criminals. I feel as if I'm breaking the law just by walking through there. It just gets me really heated thinking about it.

I thought I'd post just a few of our top favorite pics from our Mt. Lemmon day trip. A piece of Chris and I will always be there, and it just feels good to reminisce even if it's only been four days.

... On top of the world

... Rejoice in everything sunshine

... Doesn't this look like an Olan Mills backdrop? Believe it or not it's Arizona's skyscrape. Boy I've got a handsome hubby.

... Nice looking hat there.

"Ali don't go in the water." (Chris)

"But I must the water looks so clean and clear." (me)

"It is freezing cold!" (me)

"I told you so." (Chris)

03-30-2010

2010-03-16T20:06:00.000Z

Don't we look happy? Apparently we both really needed a vacation.

We celebrated our most special occasion yesterday as if it were March 30. March 30 is our anniversary. We decided to take the opportunity for a little alone time and enjoy just each others company. We dined at one of our most favorite restaurants here in Tucson called Sakura, The Japanese Steakhouse. We actually celebrated our 'wedding' dinner reception there three years ago so it was apres poi that we chose that restaurant last evening. Chris and I splurged with a yummy calamari appetizer, Chris' favorite. Japanese beers were only $2.00 a pint, so we couldn't refuse. Then we both had seafood combination plates with rice, seafood, and yummy sauteed vegetables. The ambiance and food was absolutely delectable. The air was cool in the low 60's as we ate, but we kept warm by the big heating lanterns. We couldn't have chose a more perfect place to kickoff year number 4. Here's to us babe.

The evening couldn't have been more perfect and then Chris presented me with a beautiful and extremely fragrant wrist corsage, my favorite. He picked the flowers and the colors to match my dress all my himself. Sorry we didn't get any pictures of the dress. Thanks babe.

Our waitress was so kind, and she knew we were celebrating, that she surprised us with a little bowl of ice cream loaded with cool whip and chocolate sauce to share. We thanked her for her thoughtfulness and enjoyed feeding each other the tasty treat.

Cactus Scavenger Hunt

2010-03-15T06:00:00.000Z

Chris and I forgot just how beautiful our cacti are. We never really appreciated their unique beauty, so today we drove around on a little 'cactus scavenger hunt' taking pictures of cactus just like we were tourists. We had so much fun. Chris really liked the 'hunting' part. We hope you appreciate their beauty as much as we do.

Arizona's famous Saguaro cactus. The Saguara cactus is native to Arizona and the blossom is the state flower. Saguaro cacti grow an 'arm' every 100 years, so this cactus is about 800 years old. It was very big and just to give you an idea of it's scale, Chris is 6'3". Mt. Lemmon in Tucson is decorated with Saguaro's and is most beautiful site ever as they completely cover most of the mountain. It's simply amazing in person.

Yucca, don't they look furry?

Prickly Pear come in the common green version and purple. Prickly Pear jelly/jam is very common here. It's pretty tart, but still good.

Golden Barrel Cactus looks like baby Saguaro to me, but a different species altogether.

Ocotillo is probably my favorite. It flowers bright orange looking flames on the tips of each of it's arms. Stunning to see.

Jumping Cholla

Organ Pipe

Mom always loved Arizona for it's cacti, so this posts for you mom.

tucson = paradise

2010-03-14T00:01:00.000Z

Chris and I decided to continue on to Tucson as planned. Tucson was part of our original plan, so we just decided to bring the dates up. Tucson is a very happy place for us, and like I said before it's where Chris and I dated, fell in love and were married. We got in on Thursday and we're planning on staying through this Thursday. We plan to see friends and family that we haven't seen in awhile. Plus we're just looking forward to soaking up some sun, because we just don't see a lot of that where we live. Since we've been here, we've run some errands, shopped and played in the pool. We love certain aspects of the Old Pueblo, but not enough to move back here.

Today we went to our favorite coffee hot spot, Starbucks. It was so nice to just sit outside and relax and we sipped our coffees. Chris picked the most perfect table outside because it was half in the sun, for him, and half in the shade for moi. I enjoyed my new favorite coffee thanks to a good friend, a caramel macchiato, she got me hooked and Chris had a double cappuccino.

Then early this afternoon Chris took a dip in the pool while I sat, out of sun, and watched on as he splashed around like a little kid. The last time we were here was April 2006 with his family while we sat we reflected about the special family moments that were shared here and what an amazing time that was. Chris has used the best words to describe it here, he says, "it's perfect", "it's good to recharge my battery", and "I'm so glad we did this". Even though we were born in other parts of the country, we both think of Tucson as our 'second home' because we both did a lot of growing up here. Tucson will always be in our hearts, and we'll return over and over again.

...wading (coming from the hot tub) brrr...

...playing

...flirting

...vegging

Ms. Photographer

adios pussycat...

...my epiphany

2010-03-12T06:57:00.000Z

You're all probably wondering what happened to our 'transfer countdown'. I had a sudden epiphany while following my heart, so Chris and I decided to put a halt on the current transfer and our surrogacy plan. After hanging out with C and her family I began to feel extremely jealous that she would get to enjoy my pregnancy, and I struggled with that pain. At the last moment, Chris and I decided we would follow our hearts and go down a different path.

At the same time, we had to let go a wonderful woman, and our surro-mom C. She is a extremely strong person, smart woman and wonderful giving mom. I was so looking forward to sharing this journey with her. She was everything we would have hoped for in a surro-mom. We built an amazing bond that only she and I could see and feel. I love her. When I shared with her the news of my change in decision she was crushed. I feel so bad for letting her down, because she would be an awesome surro-mom. She has so much to give. It tore me apart to admit to her my feelings and it was only after careful thought and deep reflection that I could even admit it to myself. I wanted nothing more than to be on this journey with her and will miss all of her helpful advice and our marathan skype sessions.

So what about the baby? Chris and I decided to attempt a pregnancy ourselves. I have consulted with Doctors and Dermatologists regarding my condition and there are several options for me post-partum that include topical medications, laser therapy and specialty makeup. I am ecstatic that this is an option for us that I just cannot express the freeing feeling that I now feel. I want nothing more than to carry our baby in my belly. We plan on pursuing IVF with the same clinic in California this summer when Chris gets back from his TDY. We are excited about what the future holds in store for us.

The Lord is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower. (Psalm 18:1)

Surro update #7

2010-03-06T07:16:00.000Z

We had our first meeting today. C, Chris and I met at Starbucks this morning for coffee and a chat. I was all 'gushing' when I met her and during our coffee chat. Chris said, out of love, I was acting like a giddy school girl. I think C and I hugged three times when we first met. Then we met up with J who was nice enough to give us a tour of his fire station. I even got to see inside a real firetruck. C, Chris, the boys and I then went to a mall play area where we got to know the boys a little better. C and J's boys are perfect. They are so spirited and just so cute. I just cannot wait til Chris and I have our own reason to play in the play area someday.

I feel C and I have come full circle with our friendship. We've developed a great relationship on skype, but had never met in person til today. Our first meeting was simply magical, and Chris even said now he can see how we get on so well. She and I are the same. C and I are similar in so many ways, that's why we know it feels so right. We're even both allergic to mangos!

Tomorrow we'll meet C and the boys for J's fire practice drill, otherwise know as known as a 'burn'. It's how the firemen/women train to put out fires on tanks and planes here on base. J is participating in the drill, so we'll have front row seats. I hope I can hold a hose, but probably not.

Our timetable will be confirmed just as soon as my cycle starts. C started hers right on time just as soon as she stopped her birth control pills. Nurse L was very happy with her progress and just as soon as my cycle starts we'll know more about our specific plan. Chris and I will need to get our second of two medical screenings for infectious diseases soon. C is still taking her Lupron injections and will start her other injections when I start mine. She'll be taking three injections and orals and I'll be taking two injections. That's a lot of drugs, but it will be worth every injection.

...pics to come

too excited for my lists

2010-03-04T04:56:00.000Z

At any given point of time - I have at least three lists running all at once. One on our refrigerator, one on my desk of to-dos and one in my planner. And usually one in my head. I carry lists with me everywhere. I like to open up my calendar every week and know what lies ahead for me. Accept this week and last was totally different, it seemed I was too excited to 'make my lists'. That 'too tired to make a list' phenomena was proposed by a friend over here and I find it to be true in my case. I simply have not been able to put anything down on paper, so needless to say I am little (a lot) unorganized right now. I'm looking at the snacks on the shelf in pantry knowing I should be packing a snack for Chris on our long trip and instead here I am blogging. Ha! Not too worry though I have an hour before we have to leave so I'm sure I'll crunch it in here somewhere. We are just excited beyond words and lists. We are leaving today and cannot wait to meet C, J and the boys! We are so excited to see what God has planned for our next chapter. We would like nothing more than to be parents and experience the miracle of life together. We feel so blessed to be surrounded by love from our parents, friends and lucky to have found our wonderful Surro-mom and dad. Dad called yesterday and his message of well wishes and safe travels was just what I needed to get over the worry in my head. Thanks Dad! Love you.

Chris got some of his most favorite shoes (that have now been discontinued), so he decided to break them out for the special trip.

...off we go

2010-02-28T04:09:00.000Z

Surro update #6

2010-02-26T04:13:00.001Z

Guess who's taking these?

The injections have started!! Here we go... C started her Lupron injections Thursday morning. Lupron is the medication that will stop her from ovulating during this process. She's taking 10units of Lupron in her abdomen everyday using insulin syringes. She'll have to take the injections for 3 1/2 weeks plus taking daily birth control pills. Then when my cycle starts she will have to start Estrogen and Progesterone injections as well. She is so brave. I'll have to take two different injections one to stimulate my eggs for egg retrieval and Lupron for preventing me from ovulating. I've already prepped C because she'll have to give me both: one in my abdomen and one in my buttocks. She's a paramedic so that will be a breeze to her, so I'm in good hands.

2010-02-25T21:14:00.000Z